One skill I am proud to possess is the ability to maintain friendships over time and space. It’s a real blessing to be able to share life with so many quality people. One intriguing aspect of having such a wide group of good friends is the cycle of contact and communication. I enjoy watching some relationships fade to the back while others shine for a spell. Then, like a lava lamp, the flow reverses. Cold relationships become warm again as memories and updates swapped.

The last year has been one of social isolation. Between COIVD and remote work, I rarely see people. Today was a bit of an anomaly. I went for a hike in the morning with Hudson, then hosted Alex for dinner tonight. It was nice. The older I grow, the more work I’ve got to put into my friendships. Nearly all of my friends are married, and most are several children deep into family life. Ironically, their single friend in Redding is not as important as their screaming daughters. What jerks.

In all seriousness, I need new people in my community. The question is, do I suffer this summer in silence, or do I make an effort with what I’ve got? I know I need people- every single day. That’s why I was so very thankful for today. I hope for more, and if it doesn’t happen, September will be here soon.